Bullying is a problem that is overtaking the society today. Being children the most gullible ones, they get abused often without even telling anyone. This is a big mistake. If you are being bullied, you should know that whoever is doing that to you does not have the rights or power to do so. They are probably insecure about themselves and see things in you that they don’t have, which is why they want to make you feel miserable. They can tell you things to make you feel bad about who you are, make you feel unwanted or even harm you physically to make themselves feel strong and dominant. For every child, it is important to talk about their problems and that includes you. If you are facing any type of bullying, you should start thinking of a solution for it.
We made a list of 5 tips that you could use to fight this:
Do not separate yourself from your friends.
If you find yourself in a situation of being followed and bullied constantly, you have to take care of your safety. You may not be prepared for what they can say or do to you. To prevent enormous incidents, always have someone by your side. That way, they will not have an opportunity to harm you.
Be firm and confident
Defend yourself. Do not forget that they are not right, what they say about you is not true and don’t be afraid of saying that. If they see this attitude in you, they might stop trying to make you feel miserable.
Do not return the blow. Do not seek revenge
Remember that violence can never resolve a problem; it can only make it worse. If what the bully does to you is harmful, you wouldn’t want to be like him. There are other ways of getting out of that situation and planning something evil is not the right way because it will change you as well.
If someone is bullying you, do not keep it a secret. Ask for help from friends or adults. Report all incidents of bullying. If you let this problem go further, hoping that it will sort itself out, it will not happen. You need help to get rid of those who want to hurt you and you may not yet be strong enough to deal with it alone.
Work on yourself
After seeking help, you should start doing things that make you feel good. You probably have your favorite activity, talents that you discovered and others waiting to be discovered. This will make you confident and no matter how negative someone tries to be toward you in the future, you will not care because you will know how worthy you are.
When you feel good about yourself, you won’t permit anyone to abuse or harm you. Every stage of our lives is important but the childhood plays an important role in what you are going to become. You need to face your problems without being afraid. Everything that makes you feel bad is not normal and you should not accept it, remember that. The world consists of so many beautiful things and bullies do not define it, you will see much more of it once you begin to appreciate yourself and resolve the problems.